I loved this article written on Club 31 Women and wanted to share with you. A bond between a mom and her daughter is very special, and so different with each one of us. Even as this states, relationships move and breathe and change over time, but, we all long for the same thing…to be loved and recognized.
An excerpt from Club 31 Women, Lisa Jacobson
It’s not easy to define what success in a relationship means because relationship is a very fluid thing.
It moves and breathes.
It changes with time.
I will listen.
It’s no secret that girls are usually talkers. We have lots to say, and even if we don’t initiate the conversation, it’s very likely we still have lots to say. If your girl is a talker: let her. If she is quiet, give her time and space to open up. Create opportunities for her to tell you the secret things.
I value you.
The power a mother has over self-esteem cannot be measured. It is limitless. Communicating and saying, I value who YOU are as a person, I value your gifts, I value who you were made to be, can change your daughter’s life. It can give strength to her soul. It will give her the strength to fly. Every girl is different. Value her, just for her.
You are my friend.
Your daughter will always have to face enemies. So make sure she knows you are her friend. Be on on her team. You are rooting for her. Include her in your life. Ask her advice. Tell her that you are going to be best friends for life. As she grows older, eventually, this can come true.
I love you…no matter what.
Love is transcendental. Love is safety. Love is approval. Give your daughter your love. Tell her. Show her. Approve of her with your looks. If she is different than you, rejoice in her giftings. Don’t try to make her like you.
So there it is.
And mamma, you just hang in there with that little girl. We grow up. But we will always need you.
Whether you are the mom or the daughter as you read this…let’s all make sure to give each other the love, the value, and the friendship that we all long for.
The Journey of Life’s Creek
I wanted to share this post from a friend of mine, Suzy. We were neighbors back in high school and I enjoy watching her journey of her life as a mother of 5. Suzy has a beautiful daughter that looks just like her, and 4 gorgeous boys! We all know that moms of all boys have a different way of thinking, they have to, right? They have to like the fishing and slimy things, and well, even if they don’t they have to get used to seeing them.
Her oldest son just graduated and she posted this graduation gift to her son. It was a gift that is so mother-like that I wanted to share with you all. As mom’s we have it all covered!
By: Suzy Schopfel
He has officially been given his
very own “paddle”.
Man… this is one happy Guy. The “Princess” has officially been given his very own “paddle”. I believe in providing the proper tools to aid and navigate his journey of life’s “creek”. Simply because we are thorough, as Moms and Dads often are, we threw in the life preserver to stay afloat, the hat to block the sun, the shades for the haters and the brand new handy dandy single person fully stocked fishing kayak…. well to fish of course! 🙄 I heard there are several of those creatures in all the waters he may travel. 😏 To slow him down and ground him on occasion, there is an anchor. If I could’ve fit in the “sweater” somewhere, to keep him warm, I would have. I seem to recall a windbreaker last month so, that counts. 😉😏 Love this Guy to the moon and all the way back.
Yes, I am well aware he now needs a body of water. 🤦🏼♀️
Thank you Suzy for allowing me to share your gift! I am sure the sweater is in his future, but thinking that a “windbreaker” could be a bit more useful in these next few years of “adulting”.
Love being a Momma of a boy,
I have been wanting to write about my son’s college graduation that took place just 3 weeks ago, but I seriously haven’t been able to find the words just yet, and a lot of that has to do with the fact that he got married the following weekend. But, I can say that it’s amazing how different College Graduation feels than High School Graduation. There really is a difference and I believe that is because it’s the first step to the reality that they really are getting ready to “leave”. I came across this awesome post and I could FEEL every word of it. I did not write this, however, I totally could have, and I guarantee you would say the same.
As moms we have this sense about us that we just can’t seem to move on without looking back. The video plays of all those years of our baby’s cutest moments and learning. We just can’t let those photographic memories in our mind go…and oh my, when we start to flip through the real photos, “Watch out Niagara Falls”!
I hope you enjoy this quick read, they did a great job putting this list together!
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